My husband dont take me for clubbing and he used to go before marriage with his cousin & friends.?

Befor marriage he used to go with his friends & cousins and they have misused him to the full extent financially.I m not from bombay and i like to enjoy and see mumbai.When i told him, he said that u dont dance, drink and have non veg..I hv started all the things now so that i get his attention.Even he is not willing to go with me. But when his friends & family is there he is very exited and keen to go.But i havent seen the same level of excitement for me. Please help as i m very frustated.....He even dont take me out of city.....